I had a friend call me a few weeks ago that I haven't talked to in months and months. He calls and says, "I need you to do a spell for me". I was kind of taken back a little because all of my non-Pagan friends now, that, I feel that it is rude to be asked to do a spell. I think that it is something that needs to be done on my own accord. I ask him about what is going on and why he needs a spell. He tells me about his ex whom he has a child with. He tells me that she is seeing this Aussie man and she is going to marry him, but she is still having my friend over and having his "benefits" (If you know what I mean). Tells me that he knows I can't mess with personal will and all that stuff but he wants something to happen so these 2 don't end up together and something bad happens to the Aussie man.
This is were I get a little upset. You know I can't change personal free will but you don't want these 2 to end up together and something bad happen to the other guy. I'm not going to do that kind of stuff sorry. If you really knew me, you would know that, that is not the type of stuff that I do. I told him that I didn't know if I could do something like that and I'd get back to him. Instead the night of the full moon. I lit a candle for my friend to help him ease his mind and let the natural just happen. He called me a couple days later and tells me, its ok, I don't have to do anything, he's feeling a little better about what is going on.
Well, tonight one of my friends is getting "handfasted". I will be performing the ceremony. The 2 have picked out a traditional handfasting ritual, with a rose ceremony ritual at the beginning. It is going to be a gorgeous ritual. I'm looking forward to performing it. As a Wiccan Priestess in the area that I am in. You don't get a big chance to perform many handfastings. I have done 3 weddings this year in a non-denominational setting but not a handfasting. I has been a little over a year since I have done a handfasting. The 2 had to bump the wedding up because he has gotten called back to serve. He has to go back to Iraq on Saturday. They wanted to do their ceremony as close to Lammas as they could. So, I guess today works out well.
Other then that, all is going well in the life of me and my family. School is going to be starting up in a few weeks. Fair is just 2 weeks away. Then the end of the month my sister and I are going to San Fran. It's going to be a busy busy month for me. Can't wait till the beginning of September when mom and I go to Vegas. That is going to be a blast!!!!
I haven't blogged in a couple weeks and figured I should. I'm back at home, but getting ready for another vacation in a month. I'm so looking forward to this one. I'm going to San Fransisco with my parents and sister. It's her 30th birthday. We are going to spend it just the 4 of us, no kids, they'll stay home with the daddy's. It will be nice to get away for a few days. We are going to do some site seeing and of course check out the "adult" attractions. Should be much fun....
Good morning. I just thought that I would say hello and let you all know that I am new to the site. I am excited to be a member and to get to meet other members on this site and also to figure my way around this site and learn the ins and outs of it.
