I had a friend call me a few weeks ago that I haven't talked to in months and months. He calls and says, "I need you to do a spell for me". I was kind of taken back a little because all of my non-Pagan friends now, that, I feel that it is rude to be asked to do a spell. I think that it is something that needs to be done on my own accord. I ask him about what is going on and why he needs a spell. He tells me about his ex whom he has a child with. He tells me that she is seeing this Aussie man and she is going to marry him, but she is still having my friend over and having his "benefits" (If you know what I mean). Tells me that he knows I can't mess with personal will and all that stuff but he wants something to happen so these 2 don't end up together and something bad happens to the Aussie man.

This is were I get a little upset. You know I can't change personal free will but you don't want these 2 to end up together and something bad happen to the other guy. I'm not going to do that kind of stuff sorry. If you really knew me, you would know that, that is not the type of stuff that I do. I told him that I didn't know if I could do something like that and I'd get back to him. Instead the night of the full moon. I lit a candle for my friend to help him ease his mind and let the natural just happen. He called me a couple days later and tells me, its ok, I don't have to do anything, he's feeling a little better about what is going on.

Hopefully all is well now.